A Red Hair Drier

I threw away a hair drier last week.  It had been lying around for weeks while I tried to find someone to fix it.  The prospect of throwing it away made me sad.  I haven’t used a hair drier for my hair for over thirty years and this one was mainly to speed up the process of defrosting the fridge or else to blow clumps of fluff from under the bed to make it easier to vacuum.  It’s just a hair drier, I kept telling myself, angry at myself for being so sentimental.  It’s an inanimate OBJECT.  

My mother had a small, battery-operated radio when I was a child.  She loved listening to the radio. Music and news on the official Italian stations during the day on MW.  At night, we would often tune into the SW frequency, discovering weird and wonderful languages we played at recognising in between intervals of beeping, whistling, ticking and hissing.  Magic night times with my mother, when I’d wake up, glimpse the kitchen light and get up.  And there she would be, sitting at the table, listening to the radio and – always – snacking.  

When this radio finally gave up the ghost, my mother was upset but also angry with herself for being so attached to an object.  Do you want to know how a radio looks like inside? she said to me, a determined glint in her eye.  She proceeded to take the radio apart, pretending this was for my sole and educational benefit.  But I knew that as she was pulling all the pieces apart, it was her attachment to it she was trying to destroy.  There, now you’ve seen the inside.  Interesting, isn’t it? Then she threw all the pieces in the bin.

I sat stroking my glossy red hair drier.  I didn’t want to break it all apart.  But I was equally angry with myself for caring so much.  

I ‘d bought that hair drier thirty-six years ago, almost to the day.  The first thing I ever bought in this country.  On my first ever morning here.  It was 21 September 1984.  A grey, chilly Cambridge morning.  I’d flown in from Rome the night before and my landlady had served me a glass of milk from a glass bottle with a wide neck and a silver foil top.  I loved its creaminess.  I went to bed in an attic room with sloped ceilings and a window overlooking the playing fields of Fitzwilliam College.  I woke up to the sound of crows cawing on the grass.  Jet-black birds on iridescent green, against a lead-grey sky that looked so low over your head, you could practically touch it.  

My landlady gave me directions to the city centre and I walked down the only Cambridge hill.  My mother and my grandmother had brought me up to dry my hair thoroughly after washing it when it was cold, so the first thing I bought upon my arrival in England was a hair drier.  A small, bright red Braun model, from the Boots on Sydney Street.

As soon as I got back to my lodgings, I washed my hair, but when I took the hair drier out of its box, I was shocked to notice that it had no plug at the end of its cord.  As soon as my hair was dry, I rushed back into town.  “There’s a problem,” I told the sales assistant in Boots. 

She stared in incomprehension.  I stared back in incomprehension.  Like two people from different planets.  That’s when I discovered that in England, electrical appliances were sold without a plug.  You had to buy them separately and wire them yourself.  Thirty-six years later, I still don’t know why.  Just like I still don’t know why there are separate taps for hot and cold water.  Freeze your hands or scald them.  Or move them frantically from one to the other.

Electrical appliances without plugs.  Separate taps.  Tables set without salt and pepper shakers.  And poorly heated houses.  And shops closing at 5.30.  What kind of strange country was this? But, a week later, I heard evensong at King’s.  Then I walked across Grantchester Meadows, under the 180º East Anglian sky.  Then I fell in love with this country.  Then I decided to stay.

A few days ago, I threw away my red hair drier.  After nearly thirty-six years of living in this country.  But then it’s not the same country anymore.  I think that’s why I felt sad.  

The next day, I bought a replacement hair drier.  Another bright red one.  It had to be red again.  Because perhaps this country will be back to the way it was again.  Someday.    And I will know it again. 

Scribe Doll

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10 Responses to A Red Hair Drier

  1. Anonymous says:

    Great, as always!

  2. You can acquire attachments to the “five-and-dime” stores where you buy these items as well. We had a chain store called “Murphy’s,” sort of on the order of Woolworth’s, when I was small. It was a five-and-dime full of everything you could imagine, a real emporium. It was one of the last of the cheap department stores to have a lunch counter, where I often ate lunch as a young teenager. If I had needed one, I could’ve bought an inexpensive hair dryer there, or hair clips, or chocolate malted milk balls (one of my favorites from their candy counter) in a paper sack. Sadly, Murphy’s hasn’t been in business now for about 40 years or so. There’s no place like it now. Life used to be so much more interesitng in some ways! Good topic and good writing as usual, Katia. Thanks.

  3. Sue Cumisky says:

    Countries like people move on. Clearing my home is proving to have the same problems. For goodness sake the China dog (2 a penny in the old says) has a chip on one paw and has very little to recommend except my grandmother left Prince to me. He will come with and people will laugh at me but they do not know that Prince was the only thing she had left if her childhood, half way up a mountain with the water collected from an old Roman well, half a mile away. And the horses got the water first.

  4. Mike Crew says:

    Bet the replacement came with a plug this time.
    Entertaining commentary as ever – always an enjoyable read.
    Thank you.
    Mike C

  5. sammee44 says:

    Isn’t it amazing what we get attached to? I had a pink and grey striped cotton top I had bought at the no-longer existing Canadian “Woodward’s Department store”–more than 35 years ago. It was so worn and falling apart I finally used it as my “painting the rooms” paint shirt. And it was only after we had painted all the rooms and the top was so paint splattered, that I finally tossed it in the discard bin. Clothes just aren’t made to last forever—guess it’s the same with hair dryers 🙂

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