Monthly Archives: March 2011
Odds & Ends: Pay Freely for a Service, Without Expectations
This is now a regular occurrence. I am at the supermarket, queuing to pay. A member of staff rushes towards me. His tone is cheerful, as though he has a special treat in store for me. “Would you like to … Continue reading
Pet Hates: Sharing a Table
You’re meeting a friend you have not seen for a while, for coffee or lunch. The setting must be conducive to a leisurely, free flowing conversation. Without eavesdroppers. You take all the necessary steps beforehand. You arrive at the restaurant … Continue reading
Words and Civilisation: How Are You?
I would love to hear comments on this, particularly from my non-British subscribers. I met a Russian friend, last week. After the initial greeting and ambicheek kiss, I asked, “How are you?” She told me about the state of her … Continue reading
Odds & Ends: The Ladies’ Room*
(*See legal disclaimer below) Even in our era – sadly so full of fears and threats – there are few places as scary as the ladies’ room at a ball, or other dressing up social event. In fact, the more … Continue reading